How can we deal with Intrapersonal conflict? Is it usual to
experience such conflicts? This dilemma called Intrapersonal conflicts were
being faced by the youths of our generation nowadays which can be resolve by
either discovering or exploring new outcomes, avoiding the "you want to do" to
overpower to "what you should do", and using the conflict as a
motivation to continue and to face that certain problem.
According to Dr. Mace, We can also use the Tiger Method,
which gives rise to openness and congeniality with others.
Intrapersonal conflict is a conflict humans face within themselves and is
a battle between wants and shoulds. People commonly resolve their dilemmas by
discovering and exploring new outcomes. Why? because its the first thing that
pop-ups to their minds and usually, people always tends to do what they don't
commonly do. For example, Filipinos have this fighting spirit and keep saying
"never say die", which can solve a intrapersonal conflict
itself.
Avoiding the "you want to do" to overpower to
"what you should do". People nowadays, especially the teenagers have
a hard time controlling their desires to explore the world of reality which
results damages like teenage pregnancies, poverty, and increasing of
criminality rate. All of those upshot can prevent and avoid by controlling
ourselves fromdoing all what we want to do, we should always think of what
might happen next, is this good for the ones i love, or if this might have a
distructing effects in my future life. Everything can be avoided by exerting
such effort.
If problem is to solution, then, Conflict is to motivation. Most
of of graveyard shift workers are the ones who commonly to face this kind of
problem because they're torn between to be with their family or to earn money
to provide their needs. For example, the nurses every christmas vacation, as
much as they wanted to be with their love ones, they can't because of their
responsibilities as worker and as a daughter/son/father/mother of a family, but
all of those sacrifices is all worth it when they see a happy, contented, and
whole family. Just remember, everything happens for a reason.
Although
it takes time to solve a problem its all worth it. Intrapersonal Conflicts can
be solved in any ways. There are alot of possible ways depending on how you
handle youself. It will always be you who will decide what will you do for your
future, so, you better think twice before you do such thing to solve your
conflicts. Ciao~